I’ve told her off a few times to great effect. Once more tonight. Yesterday she invited us and the Germans over for lunch. I don’t eat breakfast, mind you. We went over and all she had was cold appetizers consisting of pigs in a blanket and ham & cream cheese roll ups. Nothing more. I told her tonight you can’t invite people to lunch and not serve lunch. My SIL has been invited for work over to her house and she fed him leftovers. She inherited a ton of money from her husband so she cannot cry poor.